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July 2009 Highlights

Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica!
By Phillip Lee

WOW! There simply is no other way to describe my recent trip to Jamaica. By the Lord's grace, provision and guidance, His Way Out Ministries launched out into areas of ministry that very few have ever considered in Jamaica. By invitation of Mr. Craig McNally, Director and Founder of WIRED Counseling Agency in Kingston, Jamaica, His Way Out Ministries (HWOM) was afforded numerous and various opportunities to present specific and practical education and training regarding freedom from homosexuality in Christ Jesus. The ministry venues of sharing about a God that restores from the sexual brokenness of homosexuality were absolutely incredible. A three-day conference, two television shows, a church speaking opportunity to share personal testimony and the biblical perspective regarding freedom from homosexuality, a lengthy meeting with pastors and elders of various churches and denominations, and ultimately, the humbling experience of meeting with the Governor General of Jamaica.

The morning after my arrival in Kinston, I was whisked away to the beach to tape a video shoot that was used on Facebook to promote the Conference Taboo. Oh, give me a break! It was a public Jamaican holiday and everyone had the day off. And, yes, I did take a dip in the wonderful Caribbean water. It is irresistible.

Craig McNally's giftedness for organizing and promoting the Taboo Conference was impressive. Various speakers from Jamaica and America shared their personal testimonies regarding freedom from homosexuality as well as offering biblical education and guidance on the complexities of same-gender attraction. Those sharing at the Conference: Larry Brown (New York), Folasade Scott (California), Pastor David Grant (Jamaica) and, Donovan and Faith Thomas (Jamaica). The Taboo Conference began on Friday evening, May 29th and ultimately concluded on Sunday evening, May 31st with a minimal attendance of 150 strong. I was extremely grateful for the opportunity to facilitate a two-hour workshop titled Homosexuality and the Reality of Change on Saturday afternoon, May 30th. During the question and answer session of the workshop, I was gratefully accompanied by Christine Sneeringer, Director of Worthy Creations Ministry located in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida.

From beginning to end, I was extremely impressed by the huge number of young persons in attendance; an impressive number of young men and young women that undeniably expressed their willingness and affirmation of God's call on their lives to sexual purity and holiness. All of the materials I took to Jamaica found their way swiftly to individuals that expressed their appreciation for the resources. Jamaica is ripe for ministry to individuals, families, and the Church regarding freedom from homosexuality.

A highlight of the trip was the opportunity to be interviewed on a local Jamaican talk show called Religious Hard Talk hosted by Mr. Ian Bowyne. I was told that being a guest on the show and interviewed by Mr. Bowyne is the equivalent to being interviewed by Larry King on CNN. For one-hour I was questioned about my own journey out of homosexuality, what the Bible has to say about homosexuality, what was the purpose of my being in Jamaica, and, how should the Church respond to the issue of homosexuality in the Church and the world. Thankfully, I had the hour to share and emphasize a redemptive and compassionate approach to all that struggle with same-gender attraction and the role and responsibility of the Church being God's vehicle to reach broken, hurting, wounded humanity. Ultimately, I was very grateful for Mr. Bowyne's encouragement and affirmation regarding the interview.

One other television opportunity occurred on a local Jamaican show titled CVM at Sunrise. CMV at Sunrise is a weekly morning magazine program that exhibits various features on Jamaican lifestyles and happenings. During the show, Folasade Scott and I had the opportunity to share our testimonies and promote the Taboo Conference. The show's hostess was visibly moved and a bit nervous as she expressed her gratitude for our being on the show with the conveyance of, "No one is talking about this issue in Jamaica in a redemptive way." Once again, the message of hope and transformation in Christ Jesus received major air time.

It is normally very rare to have an opportunity to share with numerous Church leaders, specifically pastors, deacons, and elders in a collective setting, about ministry to those combating homosexuality. However, during a lengthy morning session at Swallowfield Chapel, a church in Kingston, I, Larry Brown and Folasade Scott had ample time to share our testimonies and interact with numerous pastors and church leaders of various churches on the subject of freedom from homosexuality. With approximately twenty-five individuals in attendance, our reception was overwhelmingly warm and encouraging. Even after fifteen years of full-time ministry to those seeking to overcome homosexuality, families impacted by a loved one's homosexuality, and educating the Church on the complexities of homosexuality, I remain extremely grateful for every and any opportunity to raise awareness, educate, and encourage the Body of Christ to minister to those who struggle with homosexuality. Therefore, the opportunity at Swallowfield Chapel was huge in opportunity. The numerous expressions of thankfulness for our transparency and information was significant and greatly appreciated.

Without a doubt, the highlight of my trip to Jamaica was the opportunity to meet and converse for a little over one-hour with the Governor General of Jamaica, His Excellency the Most Honorable Dr. Patrick Allen. I will forever be grateful to Mr. Stokeley Marshall, President of the Lawyers' Christian Fellowship for his enabling the meeting to occur. Initially, I was informed the meeting with the Governor General would be for twenty minutes only. The meeting lasted over an hour with the Governor General being incredibly gracious, receptive and personally encouraging ministry in Jamaica to help those struggling with homosexuality. I will forever remember a point in my conversation with the Governor General stating, "You are absolutely correct and I couldn't agree more. Ultimately, the crisis we face is not about homosexuality. It is about the Authority of Scripture and the Lordship of Christ. Pastor Lee, you and I are exactly on the same page." Our meeting concluded with the Governor General expressing his willingness and availability to help spread the message of hope and redemption in Christ Jesus to the homosexual in Jamaica.

It doesn't get any better than that! Over the years, God has certainly blessed me by opening incredible doors of opportunity to share the Gospel both in the States and overseas. I will forever be humbled by my meeting with the Governor General of Jamaica.

The final ministry opportunity occurred at a Sunday morning church service at Fellowship Tabernacle in Kingston, a huge church that just happened to have separate services this particular morning separating the service into a service for the men and ladies. Frankly, I was floored as I came around the corner of the sanctuary to see the place packed with hundreds of men all there to worship God - and boy did they worship! If you have ever been to the Caribbean, then you know our Caribbean brothers and sisters are completely uninhibited when it comes to worship expression. Larry Brown ministered first by sharing his testimony through a rap-style format and I followed presenting the biblical foundation regarding freedom from homosexuality in Christ. The affirmation that Larry and I both received was phenomenal. Many, many men expressed their appreciation to us for being so transparent. Thankfully, many men understood that whether it's an issue of homosexuality or heterosexual sexual addition - when you're broke, you're broke! However, our God remains a God of restoration, healing and wholeness.

Certainly, the trip to Jamaica was exciting and full of opportunities to lift the Name of Jesus. I remain grateful to Mr. Craig McNally, Mr. Stokeley Marshall, the entire WIRED team, and the many brothers and sisters in Christ that made my time in Jamaica so enjoyable and fruitful. Without a doubt, numerous seeds of truth were planted and the high visibility in which we were afforded enabled widespread exposure of the truth of freedom from homosexuality in Christ Jesus throughout Jamaica. Ministry to those impacted by homosexuality in Jamaica is still very much in a pioneer, blazing a trail, mode. Much is still to be accomplished. Please keep WIRED Counseling Agency in your prayers. Prayer is the foundation for their success. To each of you that covered me and the journey to Jamaica in prayer, I remain truly grateful!

In closing, many of you are aware that HWOM has enjoyed a ministry partnership with Operation Restoration in Guyana for quite some time now. Guyana, while on the continent of South America is still considered part of the Caribbean. Now, with our strong alliance and partnership with WIRED in Jamaica, other Caribbean destinations are looking to HWOM for help in reaching those struggling with homosexuality. I believe, without a doubt, God has called HWOM to help reach and develop the Caribbean. Please partner with us in prayer and financial support as we avail ourselves to God's purpose and calling. Certainly, these are exciting times and all of us at HWOM are purposed to walk through each and every door of opportunity our Lord enables. These are exciting times! To God be the glory!

Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age" (Matthew 28:18-20).

From All of Us at His Way Out Ministries...

To each of you who continually bless us by your encouragement, ministry participation, monthly financial support, offerings, and prayers...we remain truly grateful. His Way Out Ministries is proclaiming to, educating and impacting the world with the biblical truth that freedom from homosexuality is possible when Jesus Christ is Lord of your life!

Pastor Phillip Lee

Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

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You Can Help His Way Out

Few ministries are as difficult to fund as those which seek "to reach" homosexual men and women, come along side of families impacted by homosexuality, and educate the Church on the complexities of homosexuality. Currently, His Way Out Ministries continues to receive calls, emails and inquiries from individuals and churches from around the world seeking assistance, guidance and education on freedom from homosexuality in Christ Jesus.

Presently, numerous doors of opportunity are being opened to His Way Out Ministries in the Caribbean. With our on-going ministry in Guyana, South America, other Caribbean destinations are looking to His Way Out Ministries to raise awareness, educate and encourage the Body of Christ to minister to those who struggle with homosexuality.

Locally, in Bakersfield and our surrounding area, including Southern and Northern California, His Way Out Ministries daily receives phone calls and emails from individuals looking for mentoring and discipleship regarding freedom from homosexuality, families combatting the dismay of a loved one involved in homosexuality, and churches of all denominations calling to inquire, "How do we handle this?"

The well financed pro-gay agenda receives hundreds of millions of dollars a year from prestigious charitable donors around the nation and world, but secular sources will not give us the time of day. It is essential and critical that His Way Out Ministries remain in tact and full-time.

You make it possible for us to bring the healing power of Jesus Christ to a multitude in need of ministry. The need is great! Your gifts to His Way Out Ministries are vital! Would you please consider sending a contribution our way today?

Thank you for the prayerful consideration.

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  • Show our teaching DVD or Video: "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change" to your Sunday School class.

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Our Office and Support Groups Have Moved!

New Office Location

We have moved! For some time, His Way Out Ministries has been in need of additional office space for the daily facilitation of our ministry and room to grow. As a result, we have relocated our office to downtown Bakersfield, the Haberfelde Building, 1412 17th Street, Suite 313, Bakersfield, CA 93301. Our new phone number is (661) 321-9551.


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All of us at His Way Out Ministries remain truly grateful to Brimhall Road Assembly of God for the many, many years of housing our ministry. The congregation's generosity and contributions have been and remain significant.

New Support Group Location

Beginning Saturday, November 1, 2008, all His Way Out Ministries support groups will meet at Chester Avenue Community Church located at 1509 South Chester Avenue (corner of Ming Avenue and South Chester Avenue). Chester Avenue Community Church has been an integral part of His Way Out Ministries from our beginning and has graciously offered their facilities for the expansion and facilitation of our support groups. We are very grateful!


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Make Us One! Exodus International Freedom Conference
July 14-18, 2009 - Wheaton, IL

The International Freedom Conference is Exodus' largest annual gathering where nearly 1,000 people impacted by homosexuality unite together for five powerful days of worship, teaching, and ministry. For individuals struggling with or affected by homosexuality, the conference promises to be a life-changing experience where you will find real answers, hope, and freedom. Pastors, ministry leaders, counselors, educators, and seminary students are also invited to attend this one of a kind conference to learn more about how to minister biblical truth and grace to a world impacted by homosexuality.

For more information about the conference or to register your attendance, please visit Exodus Freedom Conferences or call (888) 264-0877.

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Pastor Phillip Lee LIVE at Parkside Church (formerly UBC)

On Sunday, October 10, 2007, Pastor Phillip Lee spoke to the congregation of Parkside Church (formerly UBC) on the subject What Does the Bible Say About Homosexuality?

You can Listen LIVE to the 6.2 MB, 36min, MP3 at this link.

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Dear His Way Out Ministries...

In recent letters to me, inmates at correctional institutions have spoken to me about their confusion and desperation to be healed and set free of same-gender attraction. As they poured out their hearts to me in letters, God has given me the ability and desire to respond to them with love, compassion and encouragement. However, I have also clarified that I know they need help beyond my level of expertise. I have sent printouts from the His Way Out Ministries and Exodus International web sites and have committed to each of them my best to locate help.

Please help us offer a message of hope and healing to those in 'prison.'

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Video: Homosexuality and the Reality of Change

Homosexuality and the Reality of Change presents a biblical perspective on the homosexual behavior with honesty and compassion. The 50 minute video contains information on: Can Homosexuals Really Change?, Will the Person Become Heterosexual?, How Long Does Change Take?, Exposing the Roots of Homosexuality, HIV and AIDS, Biblical and Scientific Evidence for Change, and much, much more.

This video is an excellent resource for teachers, churches, pastors, support group leaders, or anyone desiring a clear, comprehensive understanding of homosexuality.

The Good News of Jesus Christ and His love, acceptance, and forgiveness, His power to heal and restore has brought hope to many struggling with homosexuality. If you know someone struggling with same-gender attractions Homosexuality and the Reality of Change can help.

Videos are available on VHS or DVD at a cost of $20.00. To order your video...give us a call today.

We recently received, and watched, the video you sent us. It was excellent. We will be sharing it with other people at our church. One part that especially ministered to us was when Pastor Lee said from Philippians 1:6 that God is never going to give up His job of working in our life to conform us to the image of Christ. It helps makes sense of life's trials. Thank you for your ministry...Tom & Catherine

Preview "Homosexuality and the Reality of Change"
2min 38sec, 1.3MB, QT.mov

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What's Coming Up?

Maintaining and Restoring Sexual Purity Discipleship Series

July 4th - No meeting due to the July 4th Holiday.

July 18th Pornography - One of the greatest problems that we have in dealing with pornography is that we do not recognize it for the evil that it is. Tragically, both the Church and society have become numb to the severity of this problem and the breadth of its influence. What are some of the steps to freedom from pornography? Do we really believe in God's power to deliver or in His promises to sanctify and cause us to walk in holiness?

Maintaining and Restoring Sexual Purity is available to men and women that struggle with sexual and relational brokenness (heterosexual/homosexual), wives whose marriage has been impacted by pornography, adultery, or homosexuality, and parents rebounding from the shock and dismay of a child or loved one involved in homosexuality.

If you are tired of fighting the battle alone, ready to take some major steps toward sexual purity, or you would like to become more versed in helping someone struggling with sexual and relational brokenness, make plans to join us on Saturday, July 18th beginning at 9:00am. Our meeting is held at Chester Avenue Community Church, 1509 South Chester Avenue, Bakersfield, CA. For more information, please contact His Way Out Ministries at (661) 321-9551. There is no fee for the teaching, discipleship, and support group series. All teaching materials are provided.

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IT'S ABOUT LIFE
Food Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS

AIDS profoundly impacts one's life whether that person has been infected by it or they are a family member or a friend of someone who has. The social stigmas, fears and especially the "aloneness" associated with AIDS makes it oppressive to live with. "IT'S ABOUT LIFE" is a crucial part of His Way Out Ministries. Because His Way Out Ministries is committed to compassionately communicating God's heart through a caring Christian community, His Way Out Ministries will be a receiving house for non-perishable food items. This will assist those with AIDS to maintain a balanced diet and good nutrition. Two major considerations in food donations for folks with AIDS are speed and ease of preparation. An appetite sometimes doesn't last long and the item has to be readily accessible and speedily prepared for the patient to be able to enjoy it.

We invite churches, companies, ministries, corporations, individuals, and the entire City of Bakersfield to join with us in caring. Offer your support by donating the below listed items.

Canned tunaCanned soups
Canned ravioliCanned pasta products, e.g.Spaghettio's
Hamburger HelperPeanut butter
Hamburger HelperPeanut butter
Jams and jelliesBreakfast cereals
Breakfast barsFruit cocktail
Canned peachesTop Ramen
Cup o' Noodle soupsCanned potatoes
Canned cornMacaroni and cheese mixes
Rice 'o Roni type mixesChili beans
Tomato paste, Tomato sauceSpaghetti sauce
Potted meatsCanned stews
Instant potato mixes, e.g., scallopedInstant oatmeal variety packs
KleenexPaper towels
Toilet paperPopsicles (not frozen)
Instant breakfast drinksSpaghetti

His Way Out Ministries is located in The Haberfelde Building in downtown Bakersfield, California; 1412 17th Street, Suite 313. Items will be distributed in cooperation with other outreaches in our community. This is a continuous, on-going ministry. For further information, please call (661) 321-9551. God Bless You for your giving.

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His Way Out Ministries Services

  • Consultations
  • Family Support Group
  • Individual Prayer Ministry
  • "Time Out" Discipleship Series
  • Ministry Support Network
  • Speakers available to address Christian groups
  • "Moving On" Advanced/Closed Support Groups
  • "It's About Life" Ministry to Those Impacted by AIDS
His Way Out Ministries is a referral ministry of Exodus International and continues to enjoy a strong ministry partnership with Exodus Global Alliance partnering with EGA in the development of ex-gay ministry in the Caribbean.

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