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Angels Come In Many Forms

Jun 3rd, 2016 by

By Maverlin Oliver

Angels don’t always fly so stop looking up in the sky for one even though he or she might be up there.

Would this angry, self-blaming, sad, psychologically and physically damaged woman ever stop blaming herself for what she was going through in life? Struggling to recover from a serious bodily injury that left her disfigured and somewhat incapacitated, she writhed in agony on her hospital bed. Where was God when all of this happened to her? God could not be real.

“God, if you are real, show me a sign, let someone come and speak to me!” she internalized. Her emotional distress was eating out her heart and torturing her confused mind. A few eternal minutes passed.

Impossible! Someone, a TOTAL stranger, (“Angel,” not her real name) walked over to her bed and started to talk to her. She told the patient (“Bernie,” not her real name) that she was visiting someone in the hospital and saw her and thought she’d just come over to say “hi” and to tell her that God loves her.

“Do you know me?” asked Bernie.

“No, I don’t,” smiled Angel.

“So why did you come over to see me and you don’t even know me?” interrogated Bernie.

“Well… because God told me to do so,” responded Angel in a confident, angelic voice.

Bernie was dumbstruck! They talked a little more. Angel told her she was coming from a workshop called “A Christian Response to Homosexuality”. Bernie quizzed Angel further about the Christian response and Angel told her that although homosexuality is a sin (like other sins), and it is wrong yet as Christians we should be compassionate and show love, even though we are not condoning the sin.

The hot tears streamed down Bernie’s contorted face as she shared: “I am married to a man but basically all my life I’ve struggled with homosexuality and I’m with this woman partner to whom I am also married for many years but my husband does not know about my female partner. I know it’s wrong and I want to leave her but I’m afraid. I don’t know what to do but I want to get out of it. I suffer such anguish and pain.” Bernie told Angel that she was an answer to her prayer to God as a sign to show that He is real. Angel squeezed through that opening to share the gospel with her and to tell her that God loves her and so does she. Angel promised to refer her to one of the counselors who was at His Way Out Ministry (HWOM) workshop in Trinidad & Tobago West Indies.

Angels come in many forms, sometimes flying from one country to another but also in the form of a total stranger sent by God to minister to a brokenhearted bisexual woman.

*(NOTE: Sincere thanks to Pastor Phillip Lee and others from HWOM who held these workshops as your work is changing many lives for God’s glory. This true story was related to me by “Angel”. Bernie’s legal relationship with the woman was not done in Trinidad & Tobago as thankfully that kind of so-called “marriage” is illegal here but it was done in another country where it is legalized in some states).

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A Day at His Way Out Ministries

Jun 1st, 2016 by

Since you can’t be here to witness for yourself what God does, I’d like to share a typical day with you at His Way Out Ministries.

The day begins with a phone appointment with a man in Utah. We have been talking for quite awhile. After working though many aspects of his same-gender attraction, he is now talking about his desire for marriage (and all the concerns that go along with it).

The next session is via email with a pastor in Michigan regarding a young man that is unusually gifted in leading worship but admits to his struggle with same-gender attraction. With his church knowing his story, he remains accountable to his pastor and committed to the healing process with His Way Out Ministries being part of the team.

The guy just before lunch is walking away from his addiction to pornography and is learning to be intimate with Jesus for the first time in his Christian experience. Like a sponge, he feverishly takes several pages of notes as we talk.

After lunch is the Jones’ (not their real name) wanting to talk about their fears and anxieties should their daughter continue down the path of a lesbian relationship.

Next, a marriage that has been impacted if not devastated by homosexuality. The next email conversation represents a wife that is seeking God with the husband completely complacent to the crisis in their family. No amount of reason seems to get through. While knowing he is losing his family, he doesn’t seem to care. Heartbreaking and mind-boggling.

Emails continue to arrive in the office from pastors in such places as Kenya, India and the United Kingdom asking, “How do I handle this?” or “How should I respond to…?”

A teenager comes in with his mother and dad. He is dealing with a sexual offense with a family member. Aside from being in court, he is grappling with sexual identify confusion and just being a teenager. In spite of the stress of life, progress is being made. God is moving and positive things are unfolding.

That evening, I continue to answer emails and draft articles for our monthly Newsletter and newspaper publications with Ginny checking-in with the wives group and Craig and Karen with parents.

The above is not an unusual day at His Way Out Ministries. Yes, lots of challenges, but also lots of life and lots of Jesus’ direct touch in people’s hearts. This is what you help us do each day along with groups, training seminars and conferences. His Way Out Ministries would not exist without you. Thank you and bless you for giving to our work. You are very, very appreciated! Your support and prayers keeps us going and afloat. God bless you!

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The Gay Gospel by Joe Dallas

Jun 1st, 2016 by

rr-the-gay-gospel-dallasIn this updated edition of A Strong Delusion, author and counselor Joe Dallas helps readers understand what pro-gay theology is and how to confront it. In a biblical manner, Dallas examines believers’ personal responses and the need for bold love and commitment as they, 1) become familiar with the movement’s background and beliefs, 2) study a clear, scriptural response to each belief, and 3) extend Christ’s love to those living the homosexual lifestyle.

This resource is an important one for those who have been unsure how to respond to the growing acceptance of homosexuality in the evangelical community. It offers the balance between conviction and compassion and a practical guide to communicating with those who have embraced the pro-gay Christian movement.

For more information visit JoeDallas.com.

The Gay Gospel is available at Amazon.com

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Coming Up in June 2016

Jun 1st, 2016 by

Saturday June 4, 2016
For Ladies Only

It is our nature to isolate when we are struggling with the various trials in life. But we do not have to walk through them alone. Open the door to healing by sharing your experiences, strengths and hope and by becoming willing to accept God’s grace in solving life’s problems.

For Ladies Only, facilitated by Ginny Mitchell, is women supporting, praying, loving and caring for one another by being real and not hiding their feelings. For Ladies Only offers a safe environment to talk about real issues ladies have and are sometimes too ashamed or afraid to talk about. Come and receive biblical guidance, prayer and encouragement for your healing journey.

For Ladies Only meets on the first Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

Monday June 20, 2016
A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality

Jill Stacey Rodgers

Jill Stacey Rodgers

A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality begins Monday evening, June 20, 2016 – 6:00pm at Calvary Chapel – Lone Mountain in Las Vegas, Nevada.

Today, most Christians learn more about homosexuality from movies, the Internet and television. Many who struggle with same-sex attraction are torn by the debate while desiring to hear the redemptive truth of the Bible.

When the confession, “I’m gay!” comes from a daughter, son, spouse or close friend, it hits like a bombshell, especially in Christian families. “Where did we go wrong?” will undoubtedly surface.

In this era of gay rights, everyone knows someone who is gay-identified. “How do I share Christ without compromising the truth of Scripture?” is a commonly asked question.

The discipleship class facilitated by Jill Stacey Rodgers, author of Cinderella Dream: A Memoir About a Shattered Life Restored, will also address:

  • The vital necessity for an intimate relationship with God.
  • The part we play in our healing (how we cooperate with God).
  • What are the root causes of same-sex attraction?
  • Is there any truth to pro-gay theology?
  • Church – an integral part of a new lifestyle.
  • What does it mean to live an overcoming life?
  • And much more!

Beginning June 20th, A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality will continue to meet on the 3rd Monday evening of each month at 6:00pm.

Beginning at 7:00pm, Calvary Chapel – Lone Mountain also offers Most Excellent Way using Biblical principles to overcome habits, addictions and compulsive behaviors. The group meets for a time of teaching, discussion, Biblical guidance and prayers.

For more information about His Way Out – Las Vegas, please contact His Way Out Ministries.

Saturday June 25, 2016
Friends and Family

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Friends and Family offers a relaxed, informal meeting that is available to anyone seeking to understand the complexities of homosexuality and become more effective in reaching those combating same-gender attraction.

Facilitated by Craig and Karen Fulwyler, Friends and Family assists parents, friends, co-workers, a fellow brother and sister in Christ, a neighbor, face the complexity of emotions, actions and questions that will undoubtedly surface when learning of an individual’s homosexuality. Please see the article Friends and Family Care Group for additional information.

Friends and Family meets on the fourth Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

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A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality begins June 20 in Las Vegas

Jun 1st, 2016 by

A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality begins Monday evening, June 20, 2016 – 6:00pm at Calvary Chapel – Lone Mountain in Las Vegas, Nevada.

Jill Stacey Rodgers

Jill Stacey Rodgers

Today, most Christians learn more about homosexuality from movies, the Internet and television. Many who struggle with same-sex attraction are torn by the debate while desiring to hear the redemptive truth of the Bible.

When the confession, “I’m gay!” comes from a daughter, son, spouse or close friend, it hits like a bombshell, especially in Christian families. “Where did we go wrong?” will undoubtedly surface.

In this era of gay rights, everyone knows someone who is gay-identified. “How do I share Christ without compromising the truth of Scripture?” is a commonly asked question.

The discipleship class facilitated by Jill Stacey Rodgers, author of Cinderella Dream: A Memoir About a Shattered Life Restored, will also address:

  • The vital necessity for an intimate relationship with God.
  • The part we play in our healing (how we cooperate with God).
  • What are the root causes of same-sex attraction?
  • Is there any truth to pro-gay theology?
  • Church – an integral part of a new lifestyle.
  • What does it mean to live an overcoming life?
  • And much more!

header-calvary-chapel-lone-mountainBeginning June 20th, A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality will continue to meet on the 3rd Monday evening of each month at 6:00pm.

Beginning at 7:00pm, Calvary Chapel – Lone Mountain also offers Most Excellent Way using Biblical principles to overcome habits, addictions and compulsive behaviors. The group meets for a time of teaching, discussion, Biblical guidance and prayers.

For more information about His Way Out – Las Vegas, please contact His Way Out Ministries.

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Restored Hope Network 2016 Conference

Jun 1st, 2016 by

June 24 & 25, 2016
Restored Hope Network Conference

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For more information go to Restored Hope Network Annual Conference.

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Why Support His Way Out Ministries?

Apr 27th, 2016 by

Why should you consider supporting a ministry helping men, women, families and churches, in America, the Caribbean and South America to face and overcome homosexuality?

Please enjoy just a few brief testimonies of individuals that have experienced the transforming work of the Holy Spirit at His Way Out Ministries.

“I know that there are a lot of people like me, who came to this spiritual hospital called His Way Out Ministries. Since spiritual warfare starts in our thought patterns, thank God, He renews and changes those patterns. I can’t even begin to say thank-you enough to everyone at His Way Out Ministries who allowed God to use them to bring wholeness to my life.” – Carol

“Thank you His Way Out Ministries and your supporters in helping to bring healing to my life in the area of my sexuality. I was broken, desperate, alone and confused. Now, I look forward to life with hope.” – Bernie

“When I joined the support group at His Way Out Ministries, I did so to face and confront issues that were always suppressed under guilt and shame. I’ve learned a little more about grace. The group became a refuge and I began to look forward to the meetings to let out all I had been stuffing inside. I found understanding and support for very fragile emotions.” – John

“It’s been quite a year. So many new discoveries about who I am and what God plans for my life. Through His Way Out Ministries, I have learned so many aspects of life and His creation. Thank you His Way Out Ministries for being a vessel that delivers truth to men like myself and families in the throws of confusion and concern regarding homosexuality.” – Steve

His Way Out Ministries remains on the front-line of ministry developing ministry in the Caribbean and America, with ministry development dependent upon your financial support. Our support comes from individual donors, families and churches, not institutions, company sponsors or government grants.

Words cannot adequately express the deep gratitude we have for those of you who have sustained this work with your prayers and financial support. Your partnership is invaluable.

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Breaking Free by Russell Willingham

Apr 27th, 2016 by

rr-breakingfree-willinghamThe world is awash in sex. We are bombarded with it everywhere we turn. When this ever-present temptation mixes with human weaknesses and unmet needs, many get pulled into addiction to sexually sinful behavior. They may detest their own habits, but they can’t seem to break the pattern.

Russell Willingham speaks from his own experience and that of the many he has counseled, “Yes! There is hope. Jesus offers forgiveness and healing.” In Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction and the Healing Power of Jesus, the essentials are spelled out in practical steps that can help people begin to break free.

Russell Willingham is the Executive Director of New Creation Ministries in Fresno, California. Breaking Free is available at Amazon.com.

And check out Freedom from Sexual Addiction and Pornography by Russell Willingham on Vimeo.

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Coming Up in May 2016

Apr 27th, 2016 by

Saturday May 7, 2016
For Ladies Only

It is our nature to isolate when we are struggling with the various trials in life. But we do not have to walk through them alone. Open the door to healing by sharing your experiences, strengths and hope and by becoming willing to accept God’s grace in solving life’s problems.

For Ladies Only, facilitated by Ginny Mitchell, is women supporting, praying, loving and caring for one another by being real and not hiding their feelings. For Ladies Only offers a safe environment to talk about real issues ladies have and are sometimes too ashamed or afraid to talk about. Come and receive biblical guidance, prayer and encouragement for your healing journey.

For Ladies Only meets on the first Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

Saturday May 28, 2016
Friends and Family

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Friends and Family offers a relaxed, informal meeting that is available to anyone seeking to understand the complexities of homosexuality and become more effective in reaching those combating same-gender attraction.

Facilitated by Craig and Karen Fulwyler, Friends and Family assists parents, friends, co-workers, a fellow brother and sister in Christ, a neighbor, face the complexity of emotions, actions and questions that will undoubtedly surface when learning of an individual’s homosexuality. Please see the article Friends and Family Care Group for additional information.

Friends and Family meets on the fourth Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

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Friends and Family Care Group

Apr 21st, 2016 by

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Craig & Karen Fulwyler

Whether the confession comes from a son, daughter, spouse, co-worker or close friend, the admission of homosexuality hits like a bombshell, especially in Christian homes. Instantaneously, life seems completely out of control. You are now headed in a direction you never, ever thought you would be going.

Without fail, a week does not pass without His Way Out Ministries receiving at least one phone call or email expressing, “Well, I sure didn’t think I would ever be faced with this!” The majority of calls and emails come from pastors and parents due to a child’s or congregation member’s confession of same-sex attraction. Homosexuality always seems to be someone else’s problem until it knocks on your front door.

Once the initial impact has subsided a bit, while Christian families know God is the answer, it still takes a long time for them to wrap their mind around how to engage God in what they perceive as needing to be done. Make no mistake, when someone we know confesses their same-sex attraction, many Christians struggle with how to maintain a Christ-like manner and position.

Every individual that awakens to their issue of same-sex attraction has already been through quite a heart-wrenching process and therefore it really doesn’t matter whether the individual has embraced the gay identity or is still combating and resisting temptation as well as seeking freedom from same-sex attraction. Often, very often, parents in particular will respond to the crisis by focusing on their own pain and deep sense of loss forgetting the individual plagued by same-sex attraction has already experienced a huge amount of pain and loss.

Not long ago, a Christian mother contacted His Way Out Ministries and once again offered the expression we have heard so many times during the 22 years of His Way Out Ministries, “I never thought I would be contacting you with a problem of homosexuality in my family.” The mother was understandably shattered. Initially, while the mother did respond and react appropriately standing upon the right Scriptures, the son responded with a very interesting and revealing remark. He said, “Mom, you keep telling me how hard this is for you to hear and deal with. Don’t you realize how hard it has been for me these many, many years, being raised in a Christian home and knowing that once this got out it would kill you? Ultimately, I had to make a decision that I knew nobody would be happy with. Please consider and realize that I have my own demons to fight.”

At Friends and Family Care Group, we acknowledge that picking up the pieces of life after receiving disturbing news is a challenging and difficult task.

Within our Care Group meetings…

  • We purpose to see the need to face the reality of what has happened, let go of the person, often just at a time when we feel we need to hang on harder, accept responsibility for our own actions as they relate to the situation, and grow spiritually through it all.
  • We seek to understand and face the complexity of emotions, actions and questions that most people have upon learning of a child’s, friend’s, co-worker’s or fellow brother or sister in Christ have upon learning of the issue of same-sex attraction.
  • We challenge each other to make godly choices for spiritual growth in our lives as well as the issues facing the family, Church, and community at large.
  • We encourage everyone to allow God to use them in the lives of their children, friends, family and church members with regard to the issue of same-sex attraction and related issues.
  • We distinguish carefully between homosexual attraction and homosexual behavior.
  • We encourage faith that God is able and willing to bring wholeness to the homosexual person.

As faithful followers of Christ Jesus, we must never affirm homosexual practice. But we can at least affirm the fact that the individual struggling with same-sex attraction has tried to be honest with us and has taken quite a risk in telling us, knowing it is not what we wanted to hear.

For everyone of us, one of the great crossroads in life is trying to come to terms with choices children, friends, and family members are making that are no longer within our control. Often, we feel helpless to stop what is happening, and it is often a very frustrating, if not frightening position in which to find ourselves. Ultimately, our choices about how we are going to react are sometimes all we have left.

Even if God were to answer the question “why” He has allowed this or that to happen in our families and friendships, this would not change the fact that it has happened. We must face reality, and understand that life, at least in some respects, just may never be quite the same again.

However, looking through the eyes of faith, it will become much better, as we learn the lessons the Lord has for us in “this situation.” To that end, in light of our acceptance of this reality, we can ask, “What now, Lord?” rather than, “Why?”

Friends and Family Care Group meets on the 4th Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at the His Way Out Ministries office.

Craig and Karen Fulwyler
Friends and Family Care Group
His Way Out Ministries

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