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Today, attempts by pro-gay theologians and pro-gay apologists to revise the historic teachings of the Church with regard to homosexual practice are relentless. Admittedly, their effort to persuade the clergy and theologians of the moral legitimacy of homosexual conduct has not been carried out in a vacuum. Battles continue, as those who favor homosexual practice promote the notion that there is no clear answer to the issue. There are even those that attempt to persuade under the banners of ‘love’ and ‘commitment’ that homosexual relationships be justified.

Today, there are powerful forces at work with the enemy having accomplished much by utilizing his divide and conquer tactics. Clearly, many are now worshipping another Jesus. A Jesus which has been created by man that requires absolutely no sacrifice, makes no demands of obedience, and is completely and totally silent when it comes to sexual sin.

Scripturally speaking, what do we know about homosexuality?

  • We are created beings and created with a specific intent. (Genesis 1:26-2:23) God’s blueprint for human sexuality as found in Genesis 1 and 2, clearly establishes that from the beginning God had a divine intent for human sexuality with well-defined holy boundary lines to live within regarding sexual expression.
  • God’s divine intent for human sexuality is fulfilled within the covenant of a monogamous and heterosexual union. (Matthew 19:4-6)
  • We are a fallen race, and the Fall has marred every part of our experience, including our sexual experience. (Romans 5:12-19)
  • Homosexuality is a manifestation of fallen nature and it violates created intent. (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)
  • Homosexuals are redeemable and change is possible. (1 Corinthians 6:11)

Nowhere within the totality of Scripture will you find even one positive statement about homosexual practice. Every time homosexuality is mentioned it is always mentioned as a behavior in which no man or woman is to practice. Difficult as this standard is to obey, it is the calling of Christ for all His followers, including those with same-sex attractions and desires.

The problem with pro-gay theologians and pro-gay apologists is their theorizing and speculating on what Scripture does not say about homosexuality while a true faithful follower of Christ Jesus stands upon the clarity and authority of Scripture regarding homosexual practice. Revisionists can justify virtually any type of sexual relationship, including those traditionally and historically considered immoral.

Revisionists have been quite successful in confusing compassion with acceptance of homosexual practice. Those promoting ‘the liberating power of love,’ continue to blur the lines by citing ‘some of God’s Word’ as too repressive. However, Jesus Himself repeatedly affirmed the relevance and importance of moral law:

“Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets, I have come not to abolish but to fulfill. For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth pass away, not one letter, not one stroke of a letter, will pass from the law until all is accomplished.” (Matthew 5:17-18)

Ultimately, any effort to redefine homosexual practice (in any form and to any degree) as acceptable and consistent with biblical faith constitutes an attack upon the very foundations of the Christian faith and Church.

As revisionist attacks will no doubt continue, faithful followers of the teachings of Christ must continue to counter any and all attempts to make homosexuality morally acceptable. Not to do so would undermine the traditional and historic Christian understanding regarding sexual morality.

The Gospel message that Jesus preached was and is a message of repentance and surrender. Like Jesus, His followers are to suffer the rejection of the world. We are intended to be at odds with the thinking and attitudes of this world. To water down the Gospel to make it acceptable is to lose the truth and life of God’s message.

In a world that is rapidly accepting everything and tolerating anything, faithful followers of Christ Jesus must be extremely careful. Many false teachers exist today with their underlying message being homosexuality is acceptable for anyone who wants to engage in it – a direct contradiction of Scripture.

Today, virtually nothing in society promotes the truth about homosexuality. The lies that homosexuality is a fulfilling, normal and healthy alternative saturate the media. Many are tenacious and relentless in elevating same-sex desire to the level of a moral norm.

The Church is presently faced with a challenge of significance of which is nearly impossible to exaggerate. Is ‘tolerance’ to be extended without limitation to any and all kinds of sexual expression? Is any kind of sexual relationship scripturally permissible as long as it is ‘consensual’? Does it all come down to a matter of personal taste?

I still believe the Church remains God’s vehicle to reach wounded, broken, hurting humanity. Therefore, may we, His Church:

Affirm the biblical position that God loves all persons, with homosexuality being one sin among many others and that the Holy Spirit is available to transform all persons – including the same-sex attracted individual.

Minister to persons with unwanted same-sex attraction and their families as partners in Christ’s work of healing and transformation.

Call the Church to recognize and confess its need for repentance of its welcoming and affirming of homosexual practice in the Church.

“He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8)

Pastor Phillip Lee
Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

Pastor Phillip Lee and His Way Out Ministries present Season Four; Episodes 1 through 11 Audio Podcasts originally broadcast live on KERI 1410AM Radio in Bakersfield, CA

All 4 Seasons and 91 Episodes of 30-minute broadcasts are dedicated to equipping, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to reach out and minister to individuals, families, and churches impacted by the brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Listen online or download all 11 Episodes.

Facing Reality Honestly, Compassionately, and Courageously, Audio Podcast S04E01
Whether the confession comes from a son, daughter, spouse or close friend, the admission of homosexuality hits like a bombshell, especially in Christian homes. Pastor Phillip Lee encourages all involved to face the issue of homosexuality honestly, compassionately, and courageously.

Representing the Culture or Representing Christ with Clayton Ford pt1, Audio Podcast S04E02
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his special guest Dr. Clayton Ford, Interim Pastor of Chinese Community Church, San Diego, CA, author of Called to High Adventure: Living the Spirit-Filled Life

Pastor Phillip and Dr. Ford question how we arrived at a point where same-sex marriage is legal throughout America? Did we, the Church, contribute to a cultural vacuum by offering very little resistance? How did we arrive at a point where a popular error in the Church is the attempt to blur the lines of Christian ethics, making the term “Love” an omnipotent spiritual quality which has the power to validate anything done it its name.

Representing the Culture or Representing Christ with Clayton Ford pt2, Audio Podcast S04E03
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his special guest Dr. Clayton Ford, Interim Pastor of Chinese Community Church, San Diego, CA, author of Called to High Adventure: Living the Spirit-Filled Life

Pastor Phillip and Dr. Ford continue their discussion, observing that no matter how strongly we may be opposed to the homosexual agenda (and all of its aspects), we are first of all called to be Christians who have the privilege of representing Christ Jesus to all communities of the world, regardless of color, class, nationality, gender, or sexual orientation. Yet why are so many choosing to remain silent?

The Impact of Homosexuality on Christian Families with Carol Wagstaff pt1, Audio Podcast S04E04
The Impact of Homosexuality on Christian Families with Carol Wagstaff pt2, Audio Podcast S04E05
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his special guest Carol Wagstaff, Founder of Living Stones Ministries and author of the new book Reclaim, Restore and Rebuild: Hope for Families Impacted by Sexual Brokenness.

Carol shares how homosexuality impacted her marriage which leads to a discussion of topics such as:

  • What does it mean to speak the truth in love?
  • Why we must be very careful to distinguish between homosexual attraction versus homosexual practice.
  • What are some of the boundaries Christian parents must set?
  • Homosexuality always seems to be someone else’s problem until it knocks on your front door.
  • The role of the Church to those with unwanted same-sex attraction.

If sexual brokenness – homosexuality or transgenderism – has touched your family, you’re on a painful and challenging journey. But you’re not alone.

Still Waters with Brian Busby and Joseph Crisostomo pt1, Audio Podcast S04E06
Still Waters with Brian Busby and Joseph Crisostomo pt2, Audio Podcast S04E07
Pastor Brian Busby and Joseph Crisostomo of Valley Baptist Church join Pastor Phillip Lee to discuss the many controversies that often surround the topic of homosexuality:

  • What does it mean to “speak the truth in love?”
  • Is there any way to support homosexual practice from Scripture?
  • Love, true love for God, is evidenced in our obedience to Him.
  • How do we respond to “Jesus never said anything specifically about homosexuality.”
  • This is all about people – not an issue.

The Culture or The Church with Will Winn pt1, Audio Podcast S04E08
Pastor Phillip Lee is joined by friend and ministry partner Will Winn to discuss, The Culture or The Church. Should the culture war dictate what the Church believes? When the authority of the Bible is denigrated, the Church of Jesus Christ, the light of the world, will be without any clear guidance of her own. Much is at stake.

The Culture or The Church with Will Winn pt2, Audio Podcast S04E09
Pastor Phillip Lee is joined by friend and ministry partner Will Winn for part two of the topic, The Culture or The Church. How about turning the many controversies surrounding homosexuality into ministry? Churches that blend uncompromised grace and truth are positioned for dynamic ministry.

And Such Were Some of You with Wayne Blakely pt1, Audio Podcast S04E10
And Such Were Some of You with Wayne Blakely pt2, Audio Podcast S04E11
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his Special Guest, Wayne Blakely, retired Co-Founder of Coming Out Ministries and Director of Know His Love Ministries as they discuss:

  • The importance of the Church walking alongside men and women desiring to address and overcome unwanted same-sex attraction.
  • Does the term “ex-gay” properly identify a man or woman who has left the gay identity and community?
  • How should we define “deliverance” from homosexuality and what does that look like?
  • Why is 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 such an extremely important Scripture passage regarding homosexual practice?

Wayne shares “after 40 years of involvement in homosexuality and then surrendering his life to Christ,” what the process – the journey – has been like.

All past episodes of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast are available by following THIS LINK or selecting the “Audio Podcast” category on the right.

Not long ago, a Christian mother contacted His Way Out Ministries and once again offered the expression we have heard so many times during the 25 years of His Way Out Ministries, “I never thought I would be contacting you with a problem of homosexuality in my family.”

The mother was understandably shattered. Initially, while the mother did respond and react appropriately standing upon the right Scriptures, the son responded with a very interesting and revealing remark. He said, “Mom, you keep telling me how hard this is for you to hear and deal with. Don’t you realize how hard it has been for me these many, many years, being raised in a Christian home and knowing that once this got out it would kill you? Ultimately, I had to make a decision that I knew nobody would be happy with. Please consider and realize that I have my own demons to fight.”

At Friends and Family Care Group, we acknowledge that picking up the pieces of life after receiving disturbing news is a challenging and difficult task.

Within our Care Group meetings…

We purpose to see the need to face the reality of what has happened, let go of the person, often just at a time when we feel we need to hang on harder, accept responsibility for our own actions as they relate to the situation, and grow spiritually through it all.

We seek to understand and face the complexity of emotions, actions and questions that most people have upon learning of a child’s, friend’s, co-worker’s or fellow brother or sister in Christ have upon learning of the issue of same-sex attraction.

We challenge each other to make godly choices for spiritual growth in our lives as well as the issues facing the family, Church, and community at large.

We encourage everyone to allow God to use them in the lives of their children, friends, family and church members with regard to the issue of same-sex attraction and related issues.

We distinguish carefully between homosexual attraction and homosexual behavior.

We encourage faith that God is able and willing to bring wholeness to the homosexual person.

As faithful followers of Christ Jesus, we must never affirm homosexual practice. But we can at least affirm the fact that the individual struggling with same-sex attraction has tried to be honest with us and has taken quite a risk in telling us, knowing it is not what we wanted to hear.

For everyone of us, one of the great crossroads in life is trying to come to terms with choices children, friends, and family members are making that are no longer within our control. Often, we feel helpless to stop what is happening, and it is often a very frustrating, if not frightening position in which to find ourselves. Ultimately, our choices about how we are going to react are sometimes all we have left.

Even if God were to answer the question “why” He has allowed this or that to happen in our families and friendships, this would not change the fact that it has happened. We must face reality, and understand that life, at least in some respects, just may never be quite the same again.

However, looking through the eyes of faith, it will become much better, as we learn the lessons the Lord has for us in “this situation.” To that end, in light of our acceptance of this reality, we can ask, “What now, Lord?” rather than, “Why?”

Friends and Family Care Group meets on the 4th Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at the His Way Out Ministries office.

Pastor Phillip Lee and His Way Out Ministries present Season Three; Episodes 14 through 26 Audio Podcasts originally broadcast live on KERI 1410AM Radio in Bakersfield, CA

All 4 Seasons and 91 Episodes of 30-minute broadcasts are dedicated to equipping, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to reach out and minister to individuals, families, and churches impacted by the brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Listen online or download all 13 Episodes.

Restoring Sexual Identity: Banned? with Anne Paulk, Audio Podcast S03E14
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his Very Special Guest Anne Paulk, author of Restoring Sexual Identity, and Executive Director of Restored Hope Network.

Anne shares testimony of her personal journey out of the brokenness of same-sex attraction and we discuss in detail proposed bills in California that, if passed into law, will greatly limit, if not prohibit, men and women receiving the guidance, encouragement, and support needed to walk away from the unwanted brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Today, it truly seems, the real menace of society is not those who oppose immorality but those who promote it. While we cannot, we must not, take the law into our own hands, we can, we will, we must, refuse to allow immorality to become commonplace and acceptable. This is not gay bashing. No one should be labeled hateful, a bigot, or homophobic for standing upon the Authority of Scripture and challenging or opposing the legitimacy of homosexual practice. Scripturally-speaking, it is impossible to validate, promote, or affirm homosexual practice from Scripture.

Winds of Social Change with Will Wynn pt1, Audio Podcast S03E15
It’s great to have Will Winn, ordained minister, friend, ministry partner, highly educated in Theology, Ministry, Christian Education, and Church Administration, join me to discuss California Assembly Bill 2943, a bill that has the potential to censor Christian resources like books, conference materials, and even the Gospel itself.

Right now, we should have our eyes on California. If bad policies, which are fervently being pushed are accepted in California, they usually start to spread to other states. For years, California has been testing the atmosphere around “sexual identity politics.”

It’s one thing to have a genuine disagreement with someone about their deeply held religious belief. It is a whole other thing, though, to penalize those who work to help others live out their faith. To put it simply, Christian schools, churches, and others who hold a traditional understanding of marriage and sexuality would be open to lawsuits for teaching Biblical truth about homosexuality or transgenderism.

Winds of Social Change with Will Wynn pt2, Audio Podcast S03E16
Will Winn, ordained minister, friend, ministry partner, highly educated in Theology, Ministry, Christian Education, and Church Administration, join me for part two of our discussion of the huge winds of social change that continue to blow aimlessly across America.

Same-sex marriage, I-feel-and-therefore-I-am-entitled, men in girls bathrooms, the on-going HIV/AIDS crisis, sexual addiction, pornography epidemic, gender confusion, sexual abuse, sexual identity confusion, etc.

The truth of the matter is the crisis we now face has existed for decades with the downward spiral beginning with our accepting and welcoming Jesus into our theology but not into our sexuality. The Church cannot and must not apologize for moral and ethical holy boundary lines for living. All faithful followers of Christ Jesus are called to a higher standard.

Only One Master with Janet Boynes pt1, Audio Podcast S03E17
Only One Master with Janet Boynes pt2, Audio Podcast S03E18
Pastor Phillip Lee welcomes Janet Boynes, Founder and CEO of Janet Boynes Ministries in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Janet shares the testimony of her personal journey out of lesbianism and how important it was that she found herself in a church that loved her through the process of healing and transformation.

Janet Boynes Ministries is guided by the ministry principles of, 1) teaching compassion without compromise, 2) remaining bold and strategic in the face of adversity, 3) staying true to the will of God, and 4) fulfilling the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Moving Toward the Goal with Brandon Holthaus pt1, Audio Podcast S03E19
Pastor Brandon Holthaus, Senior Pastor of Rock Harbor Church in Bakersfield, California joins Pastor Phillip Lee to discuss the questions: Can those who are struggling with same-sex desires truly profess to be Christian? What about those who are practicing gays or lesbians yet proclaim Christ? Did God really make some straight and some gay? What exactly does it mean for any of us to proclaim, “I am a Christian”?

Moving Toward the Goal with Brandon Holthaus pt2, Audio Podcast S03E20
Pastor Brandon Holthaus, Senior Pastor of Rock Harbor Church in Bakersfield, California joins Pastor Phillip Lee for part two of their discussion focusing on the question: When a Christian upholds the Lordship of Christ and the Authority of Scripture regarding homosexuality, isn’t that “protecting God’s character and the authority of His Word?”

Counterfeit Sexuality with Phillip Lee, Audio Podcast S03E21
Any endeavor to make the Bible agree with homosexual practice, requires abandoning the truth of God. True love, love for God, is not about sexual preference – it is about Biblical obedience. Join Pastor Phillip Lee as he explores Counterfeit Sexuality.

Authority and the Process of Change with Michael Brown pt1, Audio Podcast S03E22
Dr. Michael L. Brown, founder and president of FIRE School of Ministry, Director of the Coalition of Conscience, and host of the daily, nationally, syndicated talk radio show, The Line of Fire, joins Pastor Phillip Lee to focus on sexual morality. It is not a matter of each individual’s personal interpretation but is a matter of authority, God’s authority. It is imperative the Church protect and defend The Authority of Scripture.

Authority and the Process of Change with Michael Brown pt2, Audio Podcast S03E23
Dr. Michael L. Brown, founder and president of FIRE School of Ministry, Director of the Coalition of Conscience, and host of the daily, nationally, syndicated talk radio show, The Line of Fire, joins Pastor Phillip Lee to continue their discussion, focusing on the question, “Can you be gay and a Christian?” Scripture is abundantly clear that ‘change’ is possible. Today however, especially in America, little is being offered which promotes this truth about homosexuality.

Trusting God’s Absolute Truth with Clayton Ford pt1, Audio Podcast S03E24
Trusting God’s Absolute Truth with Clayton Ford pt2, Audio Podcast S03E25
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his special guest Dr. Clayton Ford, Interim Pastor of Chinese Community Church, San Diego, CA, author of Called to High Adventure: Living the Spirit-Filled Life and National Co-Director of Holy Spirit Renewal Ministries as they discuss how believing the Bible and trusting in its inerrancy (there are no errors), places each person on the right path of God’s absolute truth regarding His view and holy boundary lines regarding sexual behavior.

Demystifying Same-Sex Attraction with Brian Busby, Audio Podcast S03E26
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and his guest Pastor Brian Busby from Valley Baptist Church as they discuss the role of the Church to men, women, and their families impacted by the unwanted brokenness of same-sex attraction. They also discussed the upcoming Educational Workshop titled Demystifying Homosexuality: Defending Biblical Sexual Morality on Saturday, September 15, 2018, 1:00pm to 4:00pm at Valley Baptist Church/Olive Drive Campus.

All past episodes of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast are available by following THIS LINK or selecting the “Audio Podcast” category on the right.

As faithful followers of Christ Jesus, we cannot, we must never affirm homosexual practice because God has clearly spoken on the matter.

Genesis 1:26-2:23
God’s blueprint for human sexuality as found in Genesis 1 and 2, clearly establishes that from the beginning God had a divine intent for human sexuality with well-defined holy boundary lines to live within regarding sexual expression.

Matthew 19:4-6
God’s divine intent for human sexuality is fulfilled within the covenant of a monogamous and heterosexual union.

Romans 5:12-19
We are a fallen race, and the Fall has marred every part of our experience, including our sexual experience.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Homosexuality is a manifestation of fallen nature and it violates created intent.

1 Corinthians 6:11
Homosexuals are redeemable and change is possible.

When God speaks a word on any subject, He speaks the final word. What I think, what I feel must take a back seat to whom God is and what He has spoken.

While we cannot approve of what is clearly condemned in Scripture, we can listen. Listening does not mean that we approve of homosexual behavior, but it does mean that we respect the person enough to want to know what their life experiences have been like.

It is when we accept the person (while not condoning behavior) that we can also let go. Letting go can be excruciating because we want to jump in and make things right. You know, we do not want to release him or her. We want to jump in and fix it!

And yet often, very often, before life can take a dramatic turn or something genuine can happen in someone’s life, we have to release that person to God and to the consequences of their choices. A prayer of relinquishment becomes necessary.

It is important for me to state that while we let go, God does not let go. Each and every one of us who have had involvement in homosexuality gave our loved ones plenty of good reasons to write us off. Personally-speaking, I cannot recall one good reason for my family to have ever thought I would repent.

For me, like so many, many others, I had to exhaust all that gay seemingly promised but never, ever delivered. The ultimate awakening came in, “Hmmmm. This isn’t gay at all.”

Thankfully and gratefully, my family and God, patiently waited for me to come back to my senses and realize I had made many foolish choices, and that there had to be a far better life.

Pastor Phillip Lee

Pastor Phillip Lee and His Way Out Ministries present Season Three; Episodes 1 through 13 Audio Podcasts originally broadcast live on KERI 1410AM Radio in Bakersfield, CA

All 4 Seasons and 91 Episodes of 30-minute broadcasts are dedicated to equipping, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to reach out and minister to individuals, families, and churches impacted by the brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Listen online or download all 13 Episodes.

Homosexuality and the Church with Roger Spradlin pt1, Audio Podcast S03E01
Pastor Roger Spradlin, Senior Pastor at Valley Baptist Church, joins Pastor Phillip Lee to discuss the topic “Homosexuality and the Church”. Is the challenge, the crisis, the Church faces today really about homosexuality? Christians should never use God’s Word as a club, but neither should we water down or withhold His Word. Why are so many so adamant about challenging “change is possible for the homosexual?”

Homosexuality and the Church with Roger Spradlin pt2, Audio Podcast S03E02
Pastor Roger Spradlin, Senior Pastor at Valley Baptist Church, joins Pastor Phillip Lee for part 2 of their discussion on “Homosexuality and the Church”. Too many youth today are learning more about homoexuality from the Internet, Movies, and TV rather than in Church, causing many to be misled. How should a Christian, a church, reach out in love to a homosexual or the gay community to effectively represent Christ?

Christian and Single with Will Winn, Audio Podcast S03E03
Ministry partner and friend, Will Winn, joins Pastor Phillip Lee to discuss Christianity and the single believer. What does it mean to be Christian and single? What are the holy boundary lines defined by God for all single men and women to live within? Is it ok for a Christian to remain single?

Freedom and Change with Stephen Black pt1, Audio Podcast S03E04
Phillip is joined by Stephen Black, Chairman of Restored Hope Network, Executive Director of First Stone Ministries in Oklahoma City, OK and author of his new book titled, Freedom Realized: Finding Freedom From Homosexuality and Living a Life Free From Labels.

Stephen and I discuss, Does the Bible say change is possible? Why are some still believing the “born that way” notion/theory? Is transformation instantaneous or a process? Why is it so important to have a Christian support network?

Freedom and Change with Stephen Black pt2, Audio Podcast S03E05
Phillip is joined by Stephen Black, Chairman of Restored Hope Network, Executive Director of First Stone Ministries in Oklahoma City, OK and author of his new book titled, Freedom Realized: Finding Freedom From Homosexuality and Living a Life Free From Labels.

In part 2 of our discussion, Stephen and I discuss, Why this book, and why now? Does God condemn a person for being same-sex attracted? What does it mean to live a life free from labels?

Stephen offers great insight and truth in “understanding homosexuality.”

What Does It Mean to Be Single and Christian with Will Winn pt1, Audio Podcast S03E06
What Does It Mean to Be Single and Christian with Will Winn pt2, Audio Podcast S03E07
Ministry partner and friend, Will Winn, joins Pastor Phillip Lee to discuss, “What Does It Mean to Be Single and Christian?”

So much in our society is structured around couples. It’s often just assumed that adults will have a partner and that there is something odd about them if they don’t. However, it is remarkable how positive the New Testament is about singleness. In 1 Corinthians 7:7, Paul speaks of it as a ‘gift’ and Jesus says it is good “for those to whom it has been given.” (Matthew 19:11)

Homosexuality and the Family with Carol Wagstaff pt1, Audio Podcast S03E08
Pastor Phillip Lee welcomes Carol Wagstaff, founder of Living Stones Ministries. Carol shares her testimony of how homosexuality impacted her marriage and family. We also discuss how parents begin to pick up the pieces after learning of a child’s same-sex attraction. Critically important for families to understand the difference between “acceptance and approval.”

Homosexuality and the Family with Carol Wagstaff pt2, Audio Podcast S03E09
Join Pastor Phillip Lee and Carol Wagstaff, founder of Living Stones Ministries for part 2 of their discussion on Homosexuality and the Family. What does the Bible say about homosexual practice? Do men and women choose to be gay? What about the “I am a gay Christian” statement? Why do some still question if change is possible? Is the ultimate goal for the homosexual, heterosexuality?

Acceptance and Approval with Brandon Holthaus pt1, Audio Podcast S03E10
Pastor Phillip Lee is joined by his special guest Pastor Brandon Holthaus, Senior Pastor of Rock Harbor Church here in Bakersfield.

A church is a family, with all of its diversity, and no two churches are exactly the same. Today, when it comes to the subject of homosexuality, congregations appear to be all over the map. Gay affirming, fearful, gay bashing, and complacent churches, as well as churches that are still sold out to Christ’s way. Why do you suppose the Church has become so diverse on this matter?

Acceptance and Approval with Brandon Holthaus pt2, Audio Podcast S03E11
Pastor Phillip Lee continues his discussion with Pastor Brandon Holthaus, Senior Pastor of Rock Harbor Church here in Bakersfield.

We must respond with unconditional love to individuals dealing with same-sex attraction, while at the same time, unwavering in our loyalty to God’s Word. It is imperative the Church affirm and defend the Lordship of Christ and the Authority of Scripture.

A Christian Approach to Homosexuality with Roger Spradlin pt1, Audio Podcast S03E12
Pastor Phillip Lee is joined by his special guest Pastor Roger Spradlin, Senior Pastor at Valley Baptist Church in Bakersfield CA.

Today, the Christian community has many different approaches to handling homosexuality. We have gay bashing churches, gay affirming churches, and churches that have taken a vow of silence on the entire matter. How can a person evaluate whether their church is handling the topic appropriately?

A Christian Approach to Homosexuality with Roger Spradlin pt2, Audio Podcast S03E13
Pastor Phillip Lee continues his discussion with his special guest Pastor Roger Spradlin, Senior Pastor at Valley Baptist Church in Bakersfield CA.

Is it Scriptural to label homosexuality the worst of all sins? How should a church be led to effectively love homosexuals? Can a Christian still struggling with same-sex attraction, still profess to being a Christian? Is it ok to be gay since Jesus never specifically mentioned homosexuality? How should a Christian respond when accuse of being homophobic? God’s truth remains absolute truth.

All past episodes of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast are available by following THIS LINK or selecting the “Audio Podcast” category on the right.

Pastor Phillip Lee and His Way Out Ministries present Season Two; Episodes 13 through 29 Audio Podcasts originally broadcast live on KERI 1410AM Radio in Bakersfield, CA

All 4 Seasons and 91 Episodes of 30-minute broadcasts are dedicated to equipping, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to reach out and minister to individuals, families, and churches impacted by the brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Listen online or download all 17 Episodes.

Affirming Truth Rather Than Culture with Roger Spradlin, Audio Podcast S02E13
Affirming Truth Rather Than Culture with Roger Spradlin pt2, Audio Podcast S02E14
Pastor Roger Spradlin, Senior Pastor of Valley Baptist Church joins Pastor Phillip Lee for this episode of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast where the conversation focuses on, “How can a faithful follower of Christ Jesus affirm homosexual practice, or anything for that matter, that God never affirms?”

The Church and Popular Culture with Tem Mattox pt1, Audio Podcast S02E15
The Church and Popular Culture with Tem Mattox pt2, Audio Podcast S02E16
Pastor Tem Mattox, Senior Pastor of Northside Community Church here in Bakersfield joins Pastor Phillip Lee in a discussion on the topic, “When the culture moves, should the church move with it?”

Roger Spradlin and Phillip Lee Reverse Roles pt1, Audio Podcast S02E17
Roger Spradlin and Phillip Lee Reverse Roles pt2, Audio Podcast S02E18
Roles get reversed when Pastor Roger Spradlin interviews Pastor Phillip Lee about saying goodbye to “gay” and surrendering his life to Christ Jesus 31 years ago.

Pastor Spradlin asked important and pointed questions such as: Is there a difference between the terms “gay” and “homosexual”? Did you choose to be gay? How instrumental was the Church in your process of transformation? Were you ever bullied? Do you think a Christian should attend a same-sex marriage ceremony? Am I correct that you personally witnessed the AIDS crisis unfold in 1980? What was it, what happened that ultimately caused you to say goodbye to “gay” and surrender to Christ? Is freedom from same-sex attraction instantaneous when surrendering to Christ or is it a process? Is the ultimate goal for the same-sex attracted person heterosexuality? Is the true identity of a Christian found in their sexuality or in Christ? And, much more.

These are the kind of conversations that need to take place throughout the Body of Christ on a regular basis to effectively and compassionately communicate God’s heart concerning sexual brokenness and wholeness in Christ Jesus.

Keeping the Right Focus, Audio Podcast S02E19
Join Pastor Phillip Lee for Season 2, Podcast 19, on the topic, “When God gives a vision of truth, His truth, it is never a question of what He will do, but of what we will do.”

Don’t Walk On Eggshells! Audio Podcast S02E20
Keep trying, loving, praying, and looking for ways to reach gay-identified neighbors, friends, and loved ones. In doing so, regardless how they may respond, you will be living out God’s heart. We are called to sacrificial love, to love in the same way Christ loves us.

Homosexuality? Who Cares? Audio Podcast S02E21
There is no doubt many Christians have been strongly influenced by the continuous parade of positive media representations of homosexuality. It does “seem” that people today increasingly approve of homosexuality as a valid life option for friends and family members. But is that truly the case?

Deliverance with Mike Evans, Audio Podcast S02E22
Returning guest, Mike Evans, Founder and Director of Wholeness Ministries and author of Learning To Do What Jesus Did, Why Not Waste Time With God, and Before You Get Here, discusses the meaning of true repentance as well as what is involved, what is required by the person to experience and move into true deliverance from any habit, addiction, or compulsive behavior.

Inner Healing with Mike Evans, Audio Podcast S02E23
Mike Evans, Founder and Director of Wholeness Ministries, shares in detail and at length about inner healing and the rewards of developing an intimate relationship with God the Father. Mike’s books, Learning To Do What Jesus Did, Why Not Waste Time With God, and Before You Get Here comprise a solid mini-library for your personal healing journey.

The Real Crisis with Clayton Ford pt1, Audio Podcast S02E24
Dr. Clayton Ford, National Co-Director of Holy Spirit Renewal Ministries and author of Called to High Adventure: A Fresh Look at the Holy Spirit and the Spirit-Filled Life, and Pastor Phillip Lee have a frank and honest discussion regarding a number of important questions many are asking today. Is the true crisis the Church faces today about homosexuality or is it the Authority of Scripture? Does Scripture in any way validate homosexual practice? Why are so many churches electing to remain silent on the topic of homosexuality?

The Real Crisis with Clayton Ford pt2, Audio Podcast S02E25
Dr. Clayton Ford, National Co-Director of Holy Spirit Renewal Ministries and author of Called to High Adventure: A Fresh Look at the Holy Spirit and the Spirit-Filled Life, and Pastor Phillip Lee continue their discussion and focus on questions like, How can I say I love people while allowing them to compromise in a life of sexual sin, unchallenged? How does the Church take stances on social and moral issues without driving people away? Today, any challenge offered regarding homosexual practice is often met with accusations of “intolerance”.

The Crisis in Ministry with Robert Kuyper, Audio Podcast S02E26
Pastor Robert Kuyper, Founder of the Transforming Congregations movement within the United Methodist Church, first Executive Board President of His Way Out Ministries, and author of Crisis in Ministry (A Wesleyan Response to the Gay Rights Movement), a book in which he captures the Church’s dilemma regarding the issue of homosexuality, is Pastor Phillip Lee’s guest on the His Way Out Ministries KERI 1410AM Radio Broadcast. Pastor Kuyper offers a strong challenge to the Church to wake up and take its rightful place as ambassadors for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and specifically, to the world of sexual sinners.

Can a Homosexual Change? Audio Podcast S02E27
Can homosexuals change is a fair and important question. Does Scripture provide evidence change is possible? How is change defined and how long does it take? Who are we to believe, God, or the culture around us?

A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality with Pete Baker pt1, Audio Podcast S02E28
Pastor Pete Baker, Senior Pastor at Fairfax Assembly of God joins Pastor Phllip Lee to discuss the question, “Which is the greater crisis we face today – homosexuality or the Authority of Scripture?”

A Christ-Like Response to Homosexuality with Pete Baker pt2, Audio Podcast S02E29
Pastor Pete Baker, Senior Pastor at Fairfax Assembly of God joins Pastor Phllip Lee to discuss the question, “Are we moving in a direction that only one belief regarding homosexuality will be accepted in America?”

All past episodes of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast are available by following THIS LINK or selecting the “Audio Podcast” category on the right.

Is it more important to politically defeat homosexuals than it is to see them won into the Kingdom of God?

“Biblical authority is not tyranny: We read, reflect – and reconcile ourselves with Scripture; but we never simply remake it or reject it – if we affirm its authority.” Professor Marion L. Soards

The relentless social pressure that exists to protect “gay” from discrimination has resulted in a tragically dangerous code.

While I personally deplore any and all forms of “gay-bashing” and other hate crimes against homosexuals, the extreme medical risks and the fundamental psychological problems often associated with homosexual practice, cannot be undermined or dismissed.

In America, very little is being offered which promotes the truth about homosexuality and the general public has slowly but certainly bought into the many untruths with regard to the topic of homosexuality. This did not happen by accident.

In December 1973, by a narrow vote, homosexuality was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder (DSM) by the American Psychiatric Association. The vote was not based on scientific research but on political pressure from homosexual activists. So much for an individual’s right of self-determination to address their unwanted homosexual feelings and behavior.

In a nutshell, the problem is the politicization of psychiatry, psychology, and most definitely, the Bible, to the extent that the freedom to investigate and treat homosexuality has been and continues to be under serious attack.

During my 17 years as ‘gay,’ I personally witnessed far too many lives devastated and some taking their own lives over the celebration of ‘gay.’ In each and every case the ruin and carnage were not brought about by the individual trying to resolve their same-gender attraction.

Today, in America and around the world, in the name of tolerance, diversity, and equality, often the truth has been and is being suppressed regarding homosexuality. We can and we must reverse the current trend through education and understanding.

Yes, because of very real discrimination, homosexual activists created a brilliant strategic plan to gain across-the-board acceptance. Yet their plan was and is based upon a flawed paradigm to persuade people they were born with same-gender attraction and they cannot change.

This strategy has worked. But the biggest losers just may be homosexual men and women who may get everything they think they want, but will they be denied what they truly need?

Upholding Biblical sexual morality does not equal bigotry, homophobia, or hate.

Pastor Phillip Lee
His Way Out Ministries
www.hiswayout.com

Pastor Phillip Lee and His Way Out Ministries present Season Two; Episodes 1 through 12 Audio Podcasts originally broadcast live on KERI 1410AM Radio in Bakersfield, CA

All 4 Seasons and 91 Episodes of 30-minute broadcasts are dedicated to equipping, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to reach out and minister to individuals, families, and churches impacted by the brokenness of same-sex attraction.

Listen online or download all 12 Episodes.

Homosexuality and the Church with Don Clark, Audio Podcast S02E01
Friend, ministry partner and well-known personality in our community, Don Clark, joins me on the His Way Out Ministries KERI 1410AM Radio Broadcast for a frank, open and honest conversation about “Homosexuality and the Church.” I am so grateful to Don for coming on the broadcast and discussing such an important issue of our time.

Homosexuality and Revisionists, Audio Podcast S02E02
The so-called “enlightened understanding” of homosexuality that some now claim, discards traditional Christian teaching and literally has compromised the Church’s integrity by misrepresenting Christianity. The crisis we face today is the Lordship of Christ and the Authority of Scripture.

Homosexuality and the Church with Steven Yeary, Audio Podcast S02E03
Special Guest: Pastor Steven Yeary, Senior Pastor of Family Community Fellowship (formerly Brimhall Road Assembly of God). Is the Church being intolerant by holding to the truth and authority of Scripture regarding homosexuality? Is it possible to be a Christian yet struggle with same-sex attraction? What does change look like? Join Pastor Steven Yeary and Pastor Phillip Lee for a frank, open and honest discussion about homosexuality with emphasis on its impact upon the Church.

Homosexuality and the Church with Brandon Holthaus pt1, Audio Podcast S02E04
Special Guest: Pastor Brandon Holthuas, Senior Pastor, Rock Harbor Church. Pastor Brandon Holthaus and Pastor Phillip Lee have a frank, open and honest discussion which focuses on concern with regard to the direction a segment of the Church appears to be heading regarding homosexual practice.

Homosexuality and the Church with Brandon Holthaus pt2, Audio Podcast S02E05
Special Guest: Pastor Brandon Holthuas, Senior Pastor, Rock Harbor Church. Please join Pastor Brandon Holthaus and Pastor Phillip Lee as they continue their discussion which focuses on, “Can a man or woman be a Christian and yet struggle with same-sex attraction?”

Knowing God with Mike Evans, Audio Podcast S02E06
Mike Evans, founder of Wholeness Ministries and author of Why Not Waste Time With God?, Learning To Do What Jesus Did, and Before You Get Here: Baggage To Drop On Your Way To Heaven, joins Pastor Phillip Lee for a very special His Way Out Ministries broadcast. Mike shares in great detail the importance of, “knowing God” and, “victory begins with the Name of Jesus on our lips.”

A Pastors Role with Pete Baker pt1, Audio Podcast S02E07
Pastor Pete Baker, Senior Pastor of Fairfax Assembly of God joins Pastor Phillip Lee on the KERI 1410AM broadcast for a frank discussion which primarily focuses on, “A pastor’s role in helping someone with the unwanted brokenness of same-sex attraction,” and concern for “the silent-mode some are adopting regarding homosexual practice is being received as consent.”

A Pastors Role with Pete Baker pt2, Audio Podcast S02E08
Pastor Pete Baker, Senior Pastor of Fairfax Assembly of God and Pastor Phillip Lee continue their discussion regarding the Church and homosexuality with emphasis on “the Church holds the only answer there is to the crisis of homosexuality.”

Challenging pro-gay apologists with Jeff Victor, Audio Podcast S02E09
Dr. Jeff Victor, Founder and President of Summit Bible College, joins Pastor Phillip Lee on the His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast to discuss, “Challenging pro-gay apologists view of homosexual practice as allowed by God and acceptable in Christian theology.”

Balancing Truth and Grace with Landon Schott pt1, Audio Podcast S02E10
Landon Schott, author of Gay Awareness: Discovering the Heart of the Father and the Mind of Christ on Sexuality is Pastor Phillip Lee’s special guest on the His Way Out Ministries KERI 1410AM Radio Broadcast. Landon shares how the Holy Spirit led him to tackle the subject of homosexuality in written form, the importance of a balance of both “truth and grace” regarding same-sex attracted men and women, and are there any Scriptures that approve of or validate homosexual practice?

Restored Hope Network with Anne Paulk, Audio Podcast S02E11
Please join Pastor Phillip Lee with his special guest, Anne Paulk, Executive Director of Restored Hope Network on the His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast. Anne shares the very specialized ministry focus of Restored Hope Network, how Christ Jesus has dramatically touched and transformed her life, as well as details about the upcoming Restored Hope Network Conference in San Diego, CA offering a variety of workshops and speakers.

Defining Our Identity with Landon Schott pt2, Audio Podcast S02E12
Landon Schott, author of Gay Awareness: Discovering the Heart of the Father and the Mind of Christ on Sexuality joins Pastor Phillip Lee for a second His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast to discuss: Does that which tempts us define our identity as Christians? Is the answer to homosexuality – heterosexuality, or holiness? and God’s view of same-sex marriage.

All past episodes of His Way Out Ministries Radio Broadcast are available by following THIS LINK or selecting the “Audio Podcast” category on the right.

Reporter: I’m really surprised you continue to believe and state that men and women with same-sex attraction can change.

Me: Why does that surprise you?

Reporter: Well, you know, with so many having debunked Reparative Therapy and Conversion Therapy.

Me: I must challenge your use of the word “debunked.” While some men and women may not have benefited from Reparative or Conversion Therapy, both offer some very good, sound and solid counsel for life. So, let’s not, as the saying goes, “Throw the baby out with the bath water.”

That said, during our 25-year history of His Way Out Ministries, we have never applied or utilized Reparative or Conversion Therapy. Being a Christian ministry, our calling, mandate and approach is taken directly from the command and calling of our Lord Jesus Christ to make disciples as found in Matthew 28:19.

You do understand Biblical Discipleship is by no means the same as Reparative or Conversion Therapy, don’t you?

Reporter: Huh?

Me: Reparative and/or Conversion Therapy is a psychological, clinical approach to resolving same-sex attraction. At His Way Out Ministries, our position and approach rests entirely upon the Authority of Scripture versus the interpretations of some of the social sciences and medicines. All His Way Out Ministries Services are centered on the Biblical foundations of compassion, integrity, and dependence on God.

Reporter: Oh, pray the gay away.

Me: I would caution you not to mock God or the power of prayer.

We believe through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and the healing power of the Holy Spirit, often mediated by extended and competent ministry, prayer and a caring Christian community, the sexually broken can experience transformation and restoration towards wholeness.

And, by the way, it is our intent to extend compassionate Christian ministry for such persons while repudiating any non-loving, prejudicial attitudes that deny Christ’s unconditional love for all people and we declare such to be sin.

Reporter: Wow, I had no idea.

Me: Do you have a Bible?

Reporter: Yes.

Me: With regard to “change,” I recommend you read Mark 10:27 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-11. “Change” is not just our personal opinion or feeling. God Himself says “change” is possible.

Reporter: Hmmmm

Me: So, if you still want to disagree or argue about “change” being possible, I suggest you take it up with God. Indeed, you can argue the point with Him but you won’t win.

Reporter: Thank you for your time.

Me: Anytime.

Pastor Phillip Lee

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