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Thank you Pastor Brandon Holthaus, Senior Pastor of Rock Harbor Church and Pastor Oscar Anthony, Senior Pastor of St. Peter Restoration Community Christian Ministries in Bakersfield for recently inviting His Way Out Ministries to share with your congregations. Our message, A Christian Response To Homosexuality, was enthusiastically received with many asking for additional information to enable them to be more effective in reaching men and women with unwanted same-sex attraction. We look forward to our continued ministry partnership.

rr-healing-wounds-of-the-past-schmiererPain is certainly part of our lives, and there are very few people who haven’t, at some point, been deeply hurt. Pain, whether caused by others or our own bad decisions, not only inflicts a wound, but that wound often causes us to behave in self-protective ways that rob us of healthy relationships and peace of mind.

Who inflicted on you the deepest wound or wounds you’ve ever experienced? Do you still feel the pain of that wound today? Do you ever ask yourself why God let such a thing happen to you?

If any of those questions apply to you, you’ll find help in Healing Wounds of the Past: Finding Inner Peace At Last.

Healing Wounds of the Past is available at Amazon.com.

Answering Pro-Gay Theology

1 Corinthians 6:9-10
“Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”

Argument: “The original words in this Scripture passage refers to other forms of immorality; such as male prostitution, not to loving, permanent gay relationships.”

Response: In this passage Paul is broadly condemning all homosexual acts, not just prostitution. If Paul was condemning only one kind of homosexual activity here, and by implication allowing others, he surely would have been more explicit.

The Bible never speaks positively about homosexuality or any other sexual practices outside a lifelong heterosexual monogamous commitment. Difficult as this standard is to obey, it is the calling of Christ for all His followers, including those with same-sex attractions and desires.

Sexual immorality has become progressively more widespread and invasive in our culture. His Way Out Ministries is not content to silently watch as sexual immorality infiltrates the Church and affects countless professing Christians.

Our ministry is unique in that we have been entirely devoted to restoring Christian men, women, marriages and families impacted by same-sex attraction for 20 years. All His Way Out Ministries meetings and teachings embody the biblical message of purity and freedom from sexual and relational brokenness in Christ Jesus.

For ‘Wives’ Only

When homosexuality or sexual impurity hits a marriage, it certainly produces a crisis. However, it may be that with the ‘secret’ becoming known, the marriage has opportunity to survive. For ‘Wives’ Only, facilitated by Ginny Mitchell, offers support in a safe environment with biblical guidance, prayer and encouragement for your healing journey. For ‘Wives’ Only meets on the first Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

Questions and Answers

What causes same-sex attraction? Can a Christian be gay? As a pastor, how do I lead our church to effectively love homosexuals? What is a mentor’s role when helping men and women who struggle with same-sex attraction? Questions and Answers, facilitated by Pastor Phillip Lee, offers an informal and relaxed setting to discuss the most often asked questions about homosexuality. Whether you’re personally impacted by homosexuality or simply concerned about this controversial issue – you’ll be informed and challenged by Questions and Answers which meets on the 2nd Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

Friends and Family

Friends and Family offers a relaxed, informal meeting that is available to anyone seeking to understand the complexities of homosexuality and become more effective in reaching those combating same-gender attraction. Facilitated by Craig and Karen Fulwyler, Friends and Family assists parents, friends, co-workers, a fellow brother and sister in Christ, a neighbor, face the complexity of emotions, actions and questions that will undoubtedly surface when learning of an individual’s homosexuality. Friends and Family meets on the 4th Saturday of each month from 9:00am to 11:00am at His Way Out Ministries Office.

For more information, please contact His Way Out Ministries.

Pastor Phillip Lee RHT02December 1, 2013 is World AIDS Day and I find myself doing a considerable amount of reflection. For me, HIV/AIDS is far more than professional – it’s personal.

If you are like me, I often go for long periods of time without ever taking stock of the contents of my address book. And if you are really like me your address book is full of notes, comments and names that have been both penciled in and inked in, arrows drawn to connect various pieces of information and generally an entire hodgepodge of stuff reflecting numerous years of life’s special moments, dates and especially, people.

As the fight against the AIDS pandemic continues, there remains a legitimate concern that public awareness campaigns, education, and condom distribution are simply not working to stop the disease. At the same time, the quest by researchers to find a cure continues.

Experts agree that the answer to stopping the AIDS epidemic globally is not treatment, but prevention. They also agree that the best hope for prevention lies in changing human behavior. Never has the need and the opportunity arisen for the Christian community to take the lead in responding to this present crisis with conviction and compassion.

Many local churches, missionary agencies, faith-based organizations, and Christian hospitals are making a difference on the front lines of the remaining crisis around the world. They teach and model the biblical principles of abstinence and marital fidelity. They offer comfort without condemnation to those living with HIV/AIDS. They provide loving care for multitudes of widows and orphans. Above all, they are called and equipped to meet the spiritual needs of men, women and children affected by this on-going pandemic.

It is an undeniable tragic fact that nations, communities, and families have lost leaders of today and tomorrow. Health care systems have been overwhelmed, economies undermined, and schools robbed of both students and teachers. I remain convinced the continuing global tragedy cries out for a united Christian response.

While I certainly have no desire to sound like a prophet of doom, I could not deny the blatant realization of reading through my address book. The A’s, B’s, C’s, thumbing all the way through to “Z,” only to have each alphabetical section bring a wave of emotion. Each page of every section reflected at least one and often two names that are no long with us. Enough.

It is my continued hope and prayer that when the history of the 21st Century is written, may it be said of The Church of Jesus Christ, that we showed the love of Christ by leading the way in defeating HIV/AIDS. This is all about people.

From All of Us at His Way Out Ministries…

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Pastor Phillip Lee
Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

Trinidad and Tobago Ministry Trip Summary
October 17 – 31, 2013

“Go into all the world and preach the good news to all creation.” (Luke 16:15)

Recently, in Trinidad and Tobago, Hospital Christian Fellowship and His Way Out Ministries partnered in ministry once again spreading the Good News that freedom from same-sex attraction is indeed possible when Jesus Christ is Lord of your life!

October 18 – Debra Gauthier and I met with Hospital Christian Fellowship leadership, Dr. Judith Henry, Maria Branford and Dr. Garthlyn Pilgrim for prayer and an afternoon briefing session. That evening, our first evangelistic outreach was at St. James Pentecostal Church in which Debra and I shared our testimonies of freedom from the bondage of same-sex attraction which was extremely well received. Pastor Gilkes, Senior Pastor of St. James Pentecostal Church expressed, “Our church is open to receiving training so that we may be equipped for ministry to those with unwanted same-sex attraction.”

October 19 – A morning session with leaders of Interschool Christian Fellowship focused upon an enlightening session titled, The Approach to Homosexuality in Our Schools, with 65 educators in attendance. Many participants expressed their concern regarding sexual promiscuity and gender confusion in their schools. An evening session at the Open Bible Men’s Camp, with over 200 pastors and leaders, was a real eye-opener resulting in many churches expressing their desire to be trained and equipped for ex-gay ministry.

Maria Branford sharing with educators.

Maria Branford sharing with educators.

October 20 – At the Sunday morning worship service at St. Augustine Evangelical Church, Debra shared her powerful testimony and I shared a message titled, Homosexuality: A Crisis of Truth. Ultimately, St. Augustine Evangelical Church expressed their willingness and commitment to offering ministry to those with unwanted same-sex attraction at their church.

October 22 – A morning radio program on Radio Isaac 98.1FM with Debra and I encouraging the Church to reach to the gay community with both truth and grace was extremely well received and blanketed all of Trinidad and Tobago.

Debra and Phillip On-the-Air!

Debra and Phillip On-the-Air!

October 23 – On a program titled, Women of Promise, Debra had the wonderful opportunity to share her testimony relating ‘identity theft’ during her many years in a lesbian lifestyle on Radio Isaac 98.1FM.

October 24 – Our one-day journey to Tobago was a great time of outreach to several schools, a roundtable discussion with pastors of various churches and denominations, and a taping of TV show which continues to be aired throughout Trinidad and Tobago.

October 25 – A meeting with students of Intervarsity Christian Fellowship was a vibrant interactive session. Students from different disciplines and different Caribbean territories were in attendance enabling a lively Q&A session regarding same-sex attraction and related issues.

October 26 – Debra ministered at a ladies conference titled, Complete in Him. A young lady approached Debra in tears for prayer and counsel with regard to her struggle with lesbianism. Many others expressed their need for training and also shared, “They experienced a significant shift in their attitude toward the gay community,” with their eyes now open to this being about ‘people’ and not just an issue.

October 27 – A visit to Agape Bible Ministries provided an extensive time of prayer which was greatly appreciated since Debra, Dr. Henry and I were scheduled to be guests on a live TV program the following morning on CTV.

October 28 – The CTV morning show titled, First Up, enabled Debra, Dr. Henry and I to focus upon the unhealthy and high-risk behavior of homosexual practice which needs to continue to be addressed by the medical community. After First Up, we each taped individual segments to be later aired on a documentary series, Perspectives on Homosexuality.

October 30 – A meeting with His Excellency, President Anthony Carmona of Trinidad and Tobago. What an honor, what a privilege to share with President Carmona for an hour about a God that restores from the brokenness of same-sex attraction. President Carmona gave us more than a listening ear. At the conclusion of our meeting, President Carmona offered, “You have my full support and endorsement.”

From Left - Hyacinth Griffith, Debra Gauthier, President Carmona, Phillip Lee, Judith Henry

From Left – Hyacinth Griffith, Debra Gauthier, President Carmona, Phillip Lee, Judith Henry

October 31 – Upon our last day in Trinidad and Tobago, we all gathered over a meal to discuss and debrief the incredible two weeks of ministry. Ultimately, the consensus was completely unanimous, “To God be the glory for the great things He has done!”

“If I profess with the loudest voice and clearest exposition every portion of the truth of God except precisely that little point which the world and the devil are at the moment attacking, then I am not confessing Christ, however boldly I may be professing Christ. Where the battle rages, there the loyalty of the soldier is tested.” Martin Luther

Prayerfully yours,

Pastor Phillip Lee
Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

Dear His Way Out Ministries…

If homosexuality is no worse than any other sin, why did God destroy two cities for it and call it an abomination?

Several verses in Scripture refer to the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah without isolating homosexuality as the sole reason. Many grievous evils were commonplace in Sodom and Gomorrah with God’s wrath being poured out on them for all of the evils, not for any individual one. Homosexuality is hardly the only thing referred to as an abomination in Scripture. “There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable (abomination in KJV) to Him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.” (Proverbs 6:16-19) Without Christ’s work on the Cross, we all would be following Sodom and Gomorrah down the path to destruction.

First Baptist Church – Taft, CA
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First Baptist Church is a church committed to being a family for every person and we are delighted to have them on-board as a member of the His Way Out Ministries Network. For a full listing of “Friends” of His Way Out Ministries, please visit www.hiswayout.com/friends.

How is your church dealing with the sexual and relational brokenness of same-sex attraction? From the pulpit? On a crisis basis only? In your discipleship groups? Through your counseling department? Not at all?

His Way Out Ministries has developed a full line of biblically-based workshops to educate and encourage the Body of Christ to minister to those who struggle with same-sex attraction. Many churches, both locally and overseas, have found our workshops to be highly educational resulting in radically changed lives while re-igniting a passion for Jesus.
 
Please visit www.hiswayout.com/services for a full listing and description of the various workshops His Way Out Ministries offers such as: The Myths of Homosexuality, Reaching Gay Youth, Understanding Homosexuality, Homosexuality and the Reality of Change, and more!
 
Today, the Body of Christ is not hearing the truth about homosexual practice on the radio or television and Christians are not being provided truths about homosexuality in the newspaper.
 
Through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and the healing power of the Holy Spirit, mediated by competent ministry and a caring Christian community, the sexually broken can experience transformation and restoration towards wholeness.
 
We’d love the privilege of partnering with you to see men and women set free, marriages and families restored, and the Church purified for the soon return of our Lord Jesus Christ.

His Way Out Ministries (HWOM) remains heavily networked with and working in ministry partnership with the Caribbean destinations of Jamaica, Guyana and Trinidad and Tobago. We care deeply about those combating same-gender attraction and it is our collective goal and privilege to share with The Caribbean the transforming power of God’s love and forgiveness without compromising the truth.

By invitation of Hospital Christian Fellowship (HCF) of Trinidad and Tobago, Debra Gauthier and I will be departing for Trinidad and Tobago on October 17, 2013. During our two-week journey, we will be sharing the message there is freedom from homosexuality through the unconditional love and grace of Jesus Christ. Both Debra and I are extremely grateful to Hospital Christian Fellowship for arranging various and numerous speaking opportunities in churches, bible schools, and Christian radio, with each venue dedicated to raising awareness, educating, and encouraging the Body of Christ to minister to those who struggle with same-gender attraction.

Pastor Phillip Lee and Debra Gautier

Pastor Phillip Lee and Debra Gautier

At His Way Out Ministries we believe we have a mandate and a calling to bring understanding to the confusing issue of homosexuality. Indeed, it is past due to set many records straight and provide answers to key questions, separating fact from fiction. Are people born with same-sex attraction? Did God make them that way? Did they choose to have same-sex attraction? Does God really love those who experience homosexual feelings? How do we respond to same-sex attracted family members, friends, co-workers and fellow brothers and sisters in Christ?

Therefore, His Way Out Ministries remains dedicated to communicating a message of hope that change is possible for those struggling with same-gender desires, we refuse to be silent about the truth, and we remain steadfast in believing people have a choice with regard to homosexual practice. Photo: Debra Gauthier and Pastor Phillip Lee Hospital Christian Fellowship is convinced if Jesus were here today He would reach out in love to men and women struggling with same-gender attraction and provide a safe environment for those struggling with unwanted same-gender attraction enabling them to receive the ministry of the Church in their struggle for sexual wholeness. HCF and HWOM remain committed to that end. Please look for a trip report in an upcoming His Way Out Ministries newsletter. We would greatly appreciate your prayers.

From All of Us at His Way Out Ministries…

To each of you who continually bless us by your encouragement, ministry participation, monthly financial support, offerings, and prayers…we remain truly grateful.

Pastor Phillip Lee
Executive Director
His Way Out Ministries

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